Mothers: The Primary Menstrual Educators
Sex education is required for everyone, for 100% of the population.
Period education is required for at least 50% of the population.
Now, reality check:
In a world where ‘sex education’ is barely available to anyone, formal ‘period education’ is almost not available to anyone. Girls rely on the knowledge passed from their mothers or whatever they can gather from their friends (who got their knowledge from their mothers).
So basically, period knowledge is the inheritance that’s passed from one mother to her daughter and from her to her daughter and this chain goes on. Due to a lack of access to any formal knowledge, nobody questions the rationale behind all the information passed on. Most of the time, knowledge is incorrect, not logical, not scientific, and full of beliefs and myths.
It is time that we break free from knowledge that is based on myths, superstitions, and beliefs that are followed without any scientific reasoning.
The good news is that attaining this is not difficult if we start working on it from the grassroots level, i.e., with Mothers.
Yes! the onus is on us mothers, as we are the ones who need to educate our daughters and stop passing myths from one generation to another. We can release our daughters from the chains of these beliefs which lead to discrimination and lower their self-esteem. It is primarily on our shoulders to provide our daughters with correct knowledge and to break the vicious circle of myths and superstitions. I am a blessed mother of two beautiful daughters and I have written something straight from my heart, addressing all mothers to join hands to liberate our daughters from the shackles of myths that come along with the word ‘Periods’:
Mommies, we carry a huge responsibility
Providing the right education is our duty
Do not consider it a liability
Let us not treat menstruation with secrecy
As it is not a taboo, it is a chapter of Biology
Mommies, we carry a huge responsibility
For our kids, we are the source of literacy
Let us make sure we teach this topic appropriately
To help them grow with confidence and clarity
Mommies, we carry a huge responsibility
To break this chain of myth and illogicality
We need to handle it with reason and not fallacy
Make sure that the road we pave is sturdy
To give for our daughters, a smooth journey
Mommies, we carry a huge responsibility
Periods do not make us weak, it gives us solidity
We have to make sure our girls accept this, but with humility
That womenfolk are blessed with this God-given superiority
Mommies, we carry a huge responsibility
We have to change the period-glossary
From ‘forbidden’ to ‘ability,’ from ‘restriction’ to ‘acceptability’
Let’s move it from the column of ‘shame’ to ‘normality’
Mommies, no one else but us can bring about this positivity!
Author: Neha Manu
Neha is the mother of two lovely daughters. A Maths Honours graduate with an MBA in Finance, she has been in the IT sector for 15 years. She loves numbers and logic. For her number-love, she is a certified Abacus and Vedic Maths teacher. For her logic-love, she is pursuing her passion in order to eradicate the myths and superstitions attached specifically to periods.
Edited by: Divya Rosaline
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